tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293413140088378218.post7550359156385869396..comments2024-02-28T16:48:51.984+08:00Comments on This is No Ordinary Kid: Why Cameron is No Ordinary Kid - Part 46Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293413140088378218.post-81020624042504435452011-09-21T11:07:07.728+08:002011-09-21T11:07:07.728+08:00That's so true Spectrummom. We have no idea ho...That's so true Spectrummom. We have no idea how someone else is coping or how they get themselves through each day. We just see the facade and if it looks better than we feel we presume they are coping better. <br />Everything is relevant to our own experiences and we can only learn as our journey proceeds. Wouldn't you love to be able to cope with these stressful situations now with all the knowledge and wisdom you have built up because of them? <br />Actually - answering my own question - no I wouldn't like to cope with what I went through now, I'd rather it just never, ever happened but such is life.Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11122414294051077131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293413140088378218.post-47434629904147026582011-09-21T11:01:51.998+08:002011-09-21T11:01:51.998+08:00Vicki - I'm weepy because you've gone to w...Vicki - I'm weepy because you've gone to work weepy. We must stop doing this to each other.<br /> It's all relative, in my sane head I know that. I find it amazing how I'd buried my emotions about it, I guess because life got so busy once we left the hospital I didn't have time to think and reflect. <br />I've never mentioned any of this in my talks which I now realize is kind of relevant for nurses to hear so I shall have to make some additions. <br />I'm sorry you were sitting in the cold and dark - wish it'd been there to sit with you. <br />Huge hug and love.Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11122414294051077131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293413140088378218.post-2411740741625807022011-09-21T10:59:21.480+08:002011-09-21T10:59:21.480+08:00Thank you Wendy.Thank you Wendy.Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11122414294051077131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293413140088378218.post-37578782016245573772011-09-21T10:53:56.411+08:002011-09-21T10:53:56.411+08:00When my first son was diagnosed with autism, I fel...When my first son was diagnosed with autism, I felt like he was someone unknown. That the baby I knew had been taken from me. Now I know that I was the delusional one, that he was the same person he had been all along. However, it was years before the anger and fear of the future was under control. I am not proud of the person I was through much of that. When we think others are coping better than we are, it is only because we don't know what goes on inside their minds and behind closed doors.spectrummomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02893167023543993093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293413140088378218.post-5617199564245303892011-09-21T07:39:47.304+08:002011-09-21T07:39:47.304+08:00Firstly well done for being so brave and honest. Y...Firstly well done for being so brave and honest. You are far from incompetent! People (myself included, many times) who have to deal with a screaming child combined with sleep deprivation go more than a little crazy. I remember walking (no make that storming) out of the house in the middle of the night to sit in the cold and dark just to get away from incessent screaming. You didn't have this option and had to deal with all the other stress and grief on top of it. Don't you dare beat yourself up, you did brilliantly to get through this dark, lonely time. (Now going work all weepy and soggy!) Love always VickixxxxxxxxxVickinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1293413140088378218.post-62514837296148086772011-09-21T02:20:50.331+08:002011-09-21T02:20:50.331+08:00Big hugs on such a difficult post to write, well d...Big hugs on such a difficult post to write, well done brilliant post xxxwendyhttp://www.savette.comnoreply@blogger.com